Spirituality and Suicide – A Vincent VanGogh-ish Story

Spirituality, Meditation and Energy Healing

533453206_28ea2e47f6_zA dear, dear friend of mine recently took his own life.  Maybe I’ll stop crying in a couple of weeks.

Some people said it was the ultimate act of cowardice and selfishness.  However, I’ll leave those judgements for people who didn’t know Vince.  They simply didn’t understand.

Vince was the most gifted and talented person I ever met.  He was a visual artist whose works garnished the walls of New York City galleries.  He had a beautiful voice and played acoustic guitar with the best of them.  He was a published author who wrote children’s books. as well as non-fiction and fiction for adults.  When he left high school he passed up an opportunity to enroll in a prestigious east coast ballet academy to take a full-ride gymnastics scholarship.  When his gymnastics days came to an end, he took up whitewater kayaking and conquered some of the toughest rivers in the Northwest.

That’s when I met him.  It was on a weekend camping and kayaking trip with a bunch of mild-mannered outdoor enthusiasts.

I learned around the campfire that night, Vince was also a spiritual healer.  That explained his other gifts and his tendency toward creative genius.  He was plugged in to a higher power 24/7.   He had a long list of miraculous healings he’d taken people through.  He cured people of all sorts of emotional trauma and financial problems.  And there were also major physical healings.  That was what he was most proud of, his ability to take people out of chronic physical pain.  The twinkle in his eyes indicated nothing was more satisfying.

The emergency ward at the local hospital let him volunteer his craft in the waiting room.  His healings were so profound, the newspaper even went to the trouble to write an article on him…The Miracle Maker.

On top of that, not only was he the most gifted person I ever met, but also the most intelligent, gentle, sincere, kind and giving.  Never in all my days have I ever run across anyone like him.  In spiritual circles, I think they’d call him an embodied Guardian Angel.

However, with all his enormous blessings, Vince was also cursed.  It was his personality type.  You see, Vince was a creative free spirit.  He was the preverbal round peg in a square hole.  Due to his free-spirited nature, he was enormously challenged at making a living.  Sure, he worked normal jobs but quickly became bored and restless.  His superior intellect and creativity didn’t lend itself to confinement, routine or mediocrity.

And like most of us guys, whether he wanted to admit it or not, his self esteem was directly tied to how he made a living.  Vince struggled mightily with finding his place in the world and on occasion was overtaken with depression.  As much as he wanted to, he just didn’t fit into the system.

His healing work, although brilliant, was obscure, vague, deeply personal and difficult for many people to understand.  It didn’t market well.  Furthermore, his shy and sensitive persona was a poor fit for the hustle and push of marketing books, CD’s and artwork.  He was a vulnerable artist, not an aggressive salesman.

So after giving his all to life where he gave far more that he ever received, Vince ended his journey of loneliness and perceived failure.  His beautiful, sparkling light was extinguished in a world where he was never valued, appreciated or recognized.

When I found out Vince had taken his life, I was heartbroken but not surprised.  I only wish I could have been with him when he died.

I remember a song written by Don McLean about Vincent VanGogh in the early 1970s, titled Starry Starry Night.  I think it was written for my Vince too.  Part of it went like this:

But I could have told you Vincent

This world was never meant

For one as beautiful

As you

*Dedicated to all the beautiful souls that we can’t or don’t know how to appreciate.*

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If you have any questions on spiritual growth, meditation or energy healing, please contact me.  I’ve been working in these worlds since 1991.  I’m here to help you out.  That’s what I was born to do.  www.josephdrumheller.com  

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Meditation, Marriage and Divorce – How to Stop the Blame and Defend Ritual

Spirituality, Meditation and Energy Healing

Conscious Awareness Creates True Intimacy

 

Blame and Defend.  Blame and Defend.  And the carousel goes ‘round and ‘round.

2573762303_365ac020f8_zSometimes to get out of the cycle, the realm of repair might be within our grasp, or even inside of us.

Picture this.

A couple is out to dinner at their favorite fancy restaurant.  To charge it up, let’s say it’s Valentine’s Day.   As they’re sipping a glass of wine, a mutual acquaintance walks up to their table and says hello.  The three of them exchange light pleasantries for a few moments.  After the brief encounter, the conversation at the table between the couple shifts gears.

Woman:  “Why didn’t you just get up and take her clothes off.  You practically undressed her with your eyes.”

Man:  “What?  Are you out of your mind?  What are you talking about?  All I did was say hello.  I wasn’t doing anything.  Geez, get a grip.”

Blame and Defend.

Statistics tells us that roughly 50% of marriages end up in divorce.  Of those 50%, I’m guessing that at least half are victims of the Blame/Defend Ritual.  There’s another word for it.  It’s call projection.  And the weird part is, it usually doesn’t have anything to do with the marriage itself.  That’s fairly easy to discern if the same issues come up in the next relationship.

Projection happens when we spew unresolved emotion from the past (i.e. fear, anger, pain) into the present situation.  Both the man and woman of the Valentine’s Day dinner were unsuspecting contestants in the game.  The woman’s insecurity was triggered because her father left her mother for another woman when she was four years old.  The man was making an inappropriate connection with their acquaintance, to fill his insatiable neediness that was caused by being raised and neglected in an alcoholic family.

If you’re reading this and feeling a little holier-than-thou because you’ve never sunk to such low levels of behavior…look again.  We all do it.  No one is exempt.  Your projection just might not show up in your primary relationship.  But it might at work, or with your kids, or with the way you handle money.  In fact, the scenarios are endless.

So what do you do to make the Blame/Defend Ritual stop?

Well, it’s not as hard as you might think.  The first step is awareness.  Recognize you’re caught in the Blame/Defend game and that you have a tendency to project unresolved emotions.  That will be about 90% of the cure.

Next, take responsibility for your role and catch yourself in the act.  Then decide to stop the pattern.  Realize you are creating your own suffering.  If your partner can do the same, the beauty of relationship may be just around the corner.

After that, learn how to release suppressed emotion from the past.  It’s not that difficult.  When your emotion next presents itself, close your eyes and pay attention to where you feel it in your body.  Then with gentle focused concentration, feel it until it releases.  This is a very basic meditation/spiritual skill that can be mastered with a little practice and consistent effort.  It’s a tool to free you from the past.

It will also save your marriage.  It might even create genuine, long-lasting intimacy.

*Since the early 1990’s, I’ve evolved into an expert at helping people heal repeating patterns of stress and pain.  For more info, please visit me at:  www.josephdrumheller.com  I’d love to hear from you.

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A Mind Blowing Spiritual Awakening – Tony Robbins meets Oneness University, Part 2 of 5

Spirituality, Meditation, Mindfulness and Energy Healing

 

Part 1  Part 2  Part 3  Part 4  Part 5

 

Taken from modified excerpts of my book:

The Subconscious, the Divine and Me

The_Point_(Fiji)In 2008-09, I had two mind blowing spiritual awakening weeks through Oneness University that changed my life forever.

 

At the end of my last blog, I left our hero dangling at a spiritual retreat put on by Oneness University in Fiji.  He had just experienced his first energy download through the image of  Tony Robbins.  Let’s see what the Divine has up its sleeve now.

 

Two days later, the theme of the day was joy.  The leaders of the retreat we’re really bringing the juice, as we entered meditation.  Joy was in the air.  As we collectively settled into a trance state, people started breaking out into laughter.   It was hilarious.  As the meditation continued, it hit me too.  I laughed so hard, tears just started rolling.  It was everything I could do to keep from wetting my pants.

As the laughter gradually receded, I rolled over on all fours and my body began to uncontrollably rock from head to front.  I couldn’t stop it.  At the same time, I felt an intense pressure encompassing the top part of my skull.  I felt like a baby getting forced through a birth canal.  It was incredibly intense.  I hurt all over, especially around my temples.  Later, I learned this is called a re-birthing experience.  It can happen at the beginning of a major life transformation.

As I imagined myself coming out of the birth canal, it felt like my crown chakra burst open with brilliant light.  As I pushed through, guess who was there to greet me.  That’s right…Tony Robbins.  I thought, “Not again, doesn’t this guy ever give up?”  This time he was standing there, pointing straight at me with his arm and fingers extended, as if he had just completed a karate chop.  All of a sudden, energy started streaming out of his fingers and a wall of electricity rose up behind him and came at me like a river at flood stage.  I was completely engulfed.  My body started jerking around on the floor like I was having a seizure.  As the last of the energy flowed into my body, it picked up the image of Tony (again) and drove him through the top of my head and straight into my heart chakra, like another runaway locomotive.

Bam!  Download number two.  To be continued…

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I’m a leader in Meditation, Healing, Education and a three-time, award-winning author.  My mission is to assist people of all ages, in becoming the greatest version of who they are meant to be.

If you have any questions on spiritual growth, meditation or energy healing, please contact me.  I’ve been working in these worlds since 1991.  I’m here to help you out. That’s what I was born to do.

In thanks for reading my blog, I’d like to offer you a few great deals!

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Check out my online courses at 40% off for my readers

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Words from the Power Mystic, Llewellyn Vaughan-Lee

Meditation, Spirituality and Energy Healing

Wisdom from Llewellyn Vaughan-Lee

 

Spirituality is born of Divine expereince, not belief.  It’s a relationship with your higher power.

150px-VaughanLee_photoIn the quest of spiritual awakening here are a few words of wisdom from one of my favorite contemporary mystics.  I highly recommend his books and videos for insight into the living world of God.

This passage was lifted off the website of the Contemplative Journal and is excerpted from Lee’s book Fragments of a Love Story, Reflections on the Life of a Mystic.

“The mystical journey may begin with making a relationship with one’s inner light, but the mystic is drawn on a deeper journey towards love’s greatest secret: within the heart we are one with the divine. The fire of mystical love is a burning which destroys all sense of a separate self, until nothing is left but love Itself. While the spiritual seeker is drawn to the light of this fire, the mystic is the moth consumed by its flames. Rumi, love’s greatest mystical poet, summed up his whole life in two lines:

“And the result is not more than these three words:
I burnt, and burnt, and burnt.”

 

*Since the early 1990’s, I’ve evolved into an expert at helping people heal repeating patterns of stress and pain.  I also assist my clients in  opening the doors to the magic of their own spirituality.  I also have books and CD’s and offer private sessions remotely, via phone or Skype.

If you have any questions on spiritual growth, meditation or energy healing, please contact me.  I’ve been working in these worlds since 1991.  I’m here to help you out.  That’s what I was born to do.

Or please visit me at:  www.josephdrumheller.com  I’d love to hear from you.

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A Mind Blowing Spiritual Awakening – Tony Robbins meets Oneness University, Part 1 of 5

Spirituality, Meditation, Mindfulness and Energy Healing

Part 1  Part 2  Part 3  Part 4  Part 5

Taken from modified excerpts of my book: The Subconscious, the Divine and Me

fijismIn 2008-09, I had two mind blowing spiritual awakening weeks in Fiji  and India that changed my life forever.

For a brief period of time the world-class spiritual institution based out of India, Oneness University, crossed paths with Tony Robbins.  From about 2008-2010 Oneness held annexed course at Namale, Tony’s 5-star resort on Vanua Levu, the second largest island of Fiji.  It was an incredible convergence of two major, global, spiritual forces.  When I arrived there in September of 2008, I had no idea what I was walking into.

For me, it was a big deal because it was a week long.  I was working as a geologist and barely had enough time to squeeze it in and get the time off.   Plus, it was very expensive.  I wasn’t really sure why I wanted to go, other than the fact I had been working long and hard in northern Canada.  I needed a break.

When I decided to attend, something happened that isn’t unusual for participates going on spiritual retreats.  My growth process started.  Even though the event was weeks away, parts of my life that needed healing came up with vigor.  Issues in my relationship came up so strong, it caused an anxiety attack that lasted nearly a week.  It was a massive suppressed emotion, originating from somewhere in my past.  At that time, I didn’t really know how to deal with it.  So I kind of beat it back with a stick into the subconscious.  I had an inkling this retreat could be major.

On my way to the retreat, I felt pretty ambivalent about going.  Even though I was in the airplane, my heart was pretty non-committal.  I just wasn’t into it.  Apparently, that didn’t sit very well with the Divine, who wanted my presence whole-heartedly or not at all.  I had no way of knowing, but a defining synchronicity was one its way.

Because the retreat was in Fiji and required an international flight, I had to change planes at LAX.  As I presented my passport to the ticket agent she said, “We can’t accept this.  It has water damage.  You’ll have to get another one.”  I was livid and retorted, “What!?!  Another passport?  I’ve been using this passport for the last three years to work internationally; Canada, Denmark and Sweden!  No one has ever questioned it!  You’re not even an immigration official.  How can you deny me entry into another county?”  Unflinchingly she replied, “Sorry, airline policy.”  She wasn’t going to budge.

The retreat was still two days off.  If I was lucky, I could get an emergency passport from the federal building in LA at Brentwood.  Or I could just bag it and go back home.  I’m sure the retreat would have refunded my money.  I had a choice to make.  I could make the effort or blow it off.  (Decision is one of the most powerful forces in the subconscious)  After pissing and moaning for a while, I toughened up and decided to go.  With that decision and intention established, the Divine set me up for one of the wildest times of my life.  And this was only the beginning.

I fortuitously got a new passport and arrived at the retreat with everyone else.   Apparently, there was a high-profile celebrity at the retreat which was creating a bit of a buzz with the participants.  It was Tony Robbins.  He wasn’t really the focus of the Oneness event, he was just happened to own the facility.  It was his version of hanging out.  I had never heard of him before and when someone explained to me who he was, I replied, “Ohhhhhh…”

I had never been around anyone like him.  This guy was a force of nature.  He could sit quietly in the corner and command everyone’s attention just by his presence.  He carried tons of energy.  I was actually mildly annoyed he was there.  I wanted to utilize this week to go inward, without disruption.  It seemed like Tony could be a gigantic distraction.  How was I supposed to know the Divine was going to use him to help me?  Tony was going to be a supreme conduit of Divine energy, assisting me in my awakening process.  The weird part was, I would neither meet nor speak with him the entire time I was there.

On the first full day of the retreat, we were guided in meditation to experience the Divine.  We were instructed to relax deeply and imagine the Divine in any way it presented itself.  As I drifted in deep, guess who shows up…Tony Robbins.  I couldn’t believe it.  I was actually kind of pissed off.  I was saying inside, “C’mon, not this, anybody but him.”  I tried to shake him off but my imagination wouldn’t let it go.  He was there bigger than life and he wasn’t going away.  Deciding not to resist, I invited him in.  At that very moment, the image of Tony entered my body with the speed of a locomotive.  I could feel and hear something hit my chest so hard, I gasped for air.  Tony went straight into my heart chakra and exploded.

OK, that was weird.  Download number one.  To be continued…

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I’m a leader in Meditation, Healing, Education and a three-time, award-winning author.  My mission is to assist people of all ages, in becoming the greatest version of who they are meant to be.

If you have any questions on spiritual growth, meditation or energy healing, please contact me.  I’ve been working in these worlds since 1991.  I’m here to help you out. That’s what I was born to do.

In thanks for reading my blog, I’d like to offer you a few great deals!

Pick up a FREE 3-minute meditation audio

Check out my online courses at 40% off for my readers

Guided Meditation – The Ultimate Introduction for Beginners

Guided Meditations for Stress, Anger, Anxiety, and Distraction

Also, don’t forget

My website for private sessions, info, and events!

Are you Spiritually Awakened? Read More and Find Out.


Spirituality, Meditation and Energy Healing

Are you Spiritually Awakened?  Read More and Find Out.

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Chances are if you’re reading this article, you’ve already had a spiritual awakening moment.  You just may have not recognized it.

Spirituality is becoming a hot topic these days.  It’s seems like the more uncertainty the 21st century brings our way, the more we’re seeking peace and deeper meaning in the midst of it all.  So the big question is, what is spiritual awakening?  And better yet, how can I make it happen?

The first question is easy to answer.  Spiritual awakening is the experience of God, the Divine, the Life Force or whatever else you want to call our Creator.  Once you experience it, you will never forget it and your life will be forever transformed (for the better).  For some it maybe a brilliant moment of clarity or illuminessence.  It may be from a deep connection with Nature of with another person.  It may feel like gentle electricity or deep peace.  Whatever it is, you will never be the same again.  From then on, the channels will be open to deepen that connection for the rest of your life.  However, it’s important to note that it’s an experience.  It’s not a belief, a thought, an ideology or a concept.  It’s more sensory, like feelings of peace or gentle electricity.  It’s personal, it’s life affirming and it’s unforgettable

This leads us to the second question.  How can I make it happen?  Truth be told, you can’t.  Spiritual awakening is a gift, driven by Divine timing and grace.  It happens when it happens.  Maybe the stars all need to be lined up just right.  Maybe you need to be at a certain level of development.  Maybe you need to meet the right person.  Maybe you need to be in the right setting.  Maybe you need a specific event to happen.  Whatever the circumstances, it’s out of your control.

That’s a bummer.  So what do you do?

Since you can’t make it happen, the only thing you can do is to prepare yourself for its inevitability.  After all, the Divine isn’t stingy with these sorts of things.  So the best place to start is with desire, straight from the heart.  Sincere, heart-felt pining for spiritual awakening will send out rippling vibration that will bring your Maker to your door.

Then, it’s time to learn how to meditate.  Meditation, or deep relaxation, opens the doors to another world.  When you open your soul to that level and  depth and being, God will find you sooner or later.  Because in the depth of peace and stillness is where God hides.

However, at this point I need to interject a disclaimer.  As you yearn in earnestness for your Creator, everything that is not in alignment with that connection will bubble up to the surface.  Most of it will come up in the form of emotion that’s been suppressed inside…and it’s all from the past.  Rage, depression, arrogance, fear, hatred, jealousy, stress, insecurity, resistance.  Sooner or later, if you continue on a spiritual path, all that stuff will have to go.  And for most of us, letting go of that entrenched crap can be a difficult experience, indeed.  However, it’s a compulsory task in the game of soul evolution.  Every ascended master who has ever set foot on this planet has had to master their own internal world. But don’t lose heart, there are plenty of people like me to help you through it.

Furthermore, as you wait, desire, heal and meditate for your awakening, your day will come.  It will be a moment of no return.  From that day forth, you will bask in your own golden radiance.  Then you will turn to others, to help them on their path.

Since the early 1990’s, I’ve evolved into an expert at helping people heal repeating patterns of stress and pain.  I also assist my clients in  opening the doors to the magic of their own spirituality.  I also have books and CD’s and offer private sessions remotely, via phone or Skype.

If you have any questions on spiritual growth, meditation or energy healing, please contact me.  I’ve been working in these worlds since 1991.  I’m here to help you out.  That’s what I was born to do.

Or please visit me at:  www.josephdrumheller.com  I’d love to hear from you.

What is Meditation and Energy Healing? What’s it good for?

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I’ve been dabbling in the art of meditation and energy healing for the better part of 25 years.  So much in fact, that I accidentally became a healer.

Meditation is nothing more than deep relaxation.  However, the real magic behind meditation is that when you get deep enough into “the zone” it opens the doors to another world.  It’s the world of the subconscious mind.  There’s all sorts of mystical stuff in there, including the experience of your Creator.   But in terms of healing the most important things in the subconscious are suppressed emotions from the past.

Those emotions are like living little critters and they want to be experienced.  When they are, they dissolve and go away.  When they aren’t they make all sorts of trouble by creating repeating pattens of the same problems over and over again.  You know–problems with health, love, and money,

The beauty of meditation is that suppressed emotion from the past can be released when you’re deeply relaxed.  There’s nothin’ to it.  When they’re gone, the repeating problems go with them.  That includes difficulties with health, relationships and finances.

If you have any questions on meditation, energy healing, or spirituality, please let me know.  I’m here to help out.  If you want to include me into your networking circles, I’d be into that to.

For more info on me and what I do, please visit: www.josephdrumheller.com

I also have books, CD’s and the usuals, so feel free to check those out it that suits your fancy.